A FEW THINGS I HAVE NEVER SAID OUT LOUD
Updated: Oct 8, 2020
So it's exactly 00:17 right now and I just finished watching 'love Simon'. I have zero sleep in me and I'm too tired to watch another movie so here we are lol. If you've seen the movie you're probably itching to hear my comment about being gay and all that surrounds it, Incase you haven't seen the movie, it's about a gay teenage boy who has trouble opening up about it for a bunch of reasons, eventually he does, he goes on to date another boy and everything works out in the end. Well obviously, the movie was not about promoting homosexuality (okay kinda), Some actual life lessons in there (see the movie).
I have a Facebook and Twitter account and I can totally post all my thoughts there but I decided to create my own blog so that I can do it whenever, regardless of trends and everything surrounding social media (plus I just wanted a blog lol). Unfortunately I have not been able to write my mind because of my audience. I'm always trying to protect someone from getting offended by something and honestly someone will always get offended. So here's me doing a blant blog about all the things I have never been able to say out loud because that's what this is for. These are just opinions so feel free to disagree (just not in my comments lol).
1. ABORTIONS SHOULD BE LEGAL EVERYWHERE
My mom would legit slap me if she heard me say this lol. I know abortions are religiously and morally wrong but I think their not such a bad thing. Except of course you might die or never have children again but that to me seems like a more reasonable option than bringing an actual human into this world you're not ready or atleast able to fend for . 90% of the time the person trying to get an abortion knows they will not be available for the child, whether it is emotionally or even financially. Besides, it's not even a child yet. Of course not getting pregnant in the first place is a better option........
2. NORMALISE DATING SITES
Yes I said it. I honestly do not see anything wrong with creating a tinder(or whatever site) account and finding companionship (or atleast trying). Times are getting digital to make life easy and that's what these sites are their for. Of course, it is optional, don't create a tinder account if you don't want to just make sure you leave the people that use the sites alone.Using Not dating sites is okay, using dating sites is also okay.
3. GAY PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE TOO
First of all relax, I have read the Bible about this topic and I know all those verses you're about to quote. I'm Zambian too so obviously growing up in an African home homosexuality is just one of those taboos we were told about. Do you know what else is a taboo? Sex outside marriage but y'all ain't ready for that topic right now. So I'm here wondering where people got the right to put weight on this sin and not the other. I feel like the only difference between homosexuality and every other sin is the fact that it is done in the open and everything else is done in the dark. I'm not saying I like gay people, I'm not saying I don't like them either. Quit frankly, I don't even like most people. Jesus died for all of us, that's gay people too...
Side note: these are just opinions, my opinions and I hope you enjoy this blog that I'm writing at this time(it is now 01:00AM).
4. RELATIONSHIPS ARE A WASTE
okay I might just be ranting now lol. I probably sound bitter saying this. but i know I'm just saying things you're too scared to say so here's this. My bestfriend is always telling me "bamuna banasila" which means men finished (is this even the correct translation? Lol). The more accurate translation would probably be there are no good men anymore, (Que all men are trash by nez long haha). Obviously, all men are not trash and there are definitely still good people out there but love has never been this risky and conditional. relationships are just not a valuable investment these days. I have heard countless divorce stories, cheating husband's and violent wives. I am honestly worried about the next generation because they are being raised in the most broken homes. Am I saying stay away from relationships? No. Go ahead and give love, recieve love and whatever else is in between. I pray things work for you. After all, God created eve for Adam and relationships are his plan, he wants you to have successful relationships, (when the time is right)now is definitely not the time. Men are toxic, women are toxic and relationships don't thrive on toxicity. You can die exeh!!
5. A NORMAL WOMAN SHOULD LIKE MONEY
Actually, a normal human should like money. Ariana grande said "whoever said money can't solve your problems probably didn't have enough money to solve them", and ummm can I just get an Amen lol. The only reason women like money more than men is because women are naturally more needy than men. Emotionally needy, mentally needy and of course financially needy. Woman crave stability and security. It's not "I want your money because I want to buy this purse and that bag" it's "I want your money because I want to feel safe, I want to feel loved by you". Giving someone money is the highest expression of love. The Bible literally said "where a man's treasure is his heart is there too". You can not claim to love someone and not give to them.
I know some women are for real gold diggers but I'm speaking for the best of us, it's not money a woman wants it's security, it's your heart. Women are also very understanding so if you genuinely don't have money it's okay. I should host a seminar on how to understand the complex mind of a woman lol. I want to go on with this blog but my eyes are giving up on me and I definitely had fun being honest and raw here. Thankyou for reading till the end !!!!!!!
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